Hard lessons on and off the rugby pitch

Nicole Bremner opinion

By ONE News reporter Nicole Bremner

Published: 12:49PM Wednesday August 19, 2009 Source: ONE News

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Mistakes, hey we all make them.  They are a big part of life and the bigger the mistake the more we usually learn.  Be it about right and wrong, the consequences of our actions or even saying sorry.

No surprises then that some hard life lessons will be learned this week by First XV players at Auckland Grammar and Kelston Boys High. Some hot-headed mistakes turned Saturdays regional rugby semi-final into an ugly scrap . Supporters waded in too, escalating the on-field violence into a side line brawl, involving more than 100 people.

Not a good look for rugby, the schools or adult supporters who should have known better. To make matters worse, the whole ugly incident was recorded on film and has been replayed on national news bulletins and published in frame-by-frame detail in daily newspapers.  The behaviour has appalled the Prime Minister who claimed, this kind of semi mass violence on a football field has no place in New Zealand sport.

There is just no getting away from this very public mistake and the consequences for some players will undoubtedly be serious.  Auckland Rugby Union Chief Executive Andy Dalton quickly stepped in, labelling the fracas a disgrace and ordering a Disciplinary Hearing to get to the bottom of it.  The difference between this disciplinary hearing and others, which are held on a weekly basis, is that no single player has been cited.  Grammar and Kelston will have to argue their versions of events before an experienced committee, seasoned in dishing out punishments to players ranging from Premiers to 12 year olds.

Penalties range from warnings and player suspensions to an entire team being stood down. The swiftness of the Disciplinary Hearing and the seriousness with which the schools are treating it underscores the importance of players being held accountable for their actions.

Serious stuff alright, for young men serious about their rugby.  What, though, are the consequences for adults who waded into Saturdays brawl?  Schools openly admit they can do little about the behaviour of grown-ups who should know better. There is a real irony to adults getting away with behaviour that flies in the face of official attempts to stamp out on-field violence, and Player Codes of Conduct espoused by schools.

One high school principal has this week urged parents to chill out watching their kids play sport. Something many parents know is easier said than done.  But some parents must share the blame for mistakes made and hard lessons learned by school boy rugby players this week, regardless of penalties handed down from on high.

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